My nan will always hold a special place in my heart.
Losing a loved one is never easy but we can find comfort knowing she lived a full life and happy life. She had the opportunity to experience many things and create a lifetime of memories – Memories that I am honoured to be a part of. She had a great relationship with her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren and got to see them grow up. She dealt with a great many things in her life – her battle with cancer and the unimaginable pain of losing a child. She was a strong woman and despite these, managed to look at life in a positive light and spread that light to others around her.
It’s natural to feel sadness now that she is no longer with us but it’s important that I remember the positive impact she had on my life and the lives of others. I will cherish the memories we shared together.
She showed so much love and affection throughout my life. Whether it was through hugs, kisses, or kind words and despite living far apart, she always made me feel loved and appreciated. Remembering these moments helps me feel comforted and grateful for the special bond we shared.
I was lucky enough to be able to speak with her a lot over the phone. We had so many great conversations and fits of crazy laughter. We shared many incredible moments and they are and always will be special to me – they will never be taken for granted.
She was a kind and loving woman – she inspired me and made me laugh every time we spoke. We would laugh about the strangest things. She was always a bit ‘prim and proper’ when I was growing up but in her later years she seemed to let go and her silliness and wild sense of humour really broke free.
Unfortunately, she couldn’t attend my wedding due to health issues and lack of mobility, but she made me a video and I got to dance with her. This is a memory I will cherish forever, it brings a smile to my face and melts my heart.
On a summer visit a few years ago she told me how she had not had a Mr whippy ice cream for years and the very next day, my sister and I drove past an ice-cream van. I shouted to my sister to pull over quick so I could catch the van before it moved off. I think my sister wanted to hit me! She had no idea why I was telling her to pull over. It was a hot day and we rushed to nan’s house to give her the ice cream before it melted. I will never forget the joy on her face and the mess she made eating it.
My nan is a reminder to cherish the time you have with the people you love. Life is short, and it’s important to make the most of every moment with the people who matter most to us. Remembering my nan’s love and the memories we shared gives me the motivation to live a life that she would be proud of and celebrate the importance of family and relationships.
It’s an emotional time but focusing on the positive aspects of her life and her legacy brings comfort, inspiration, and healing during the grieving process.
I miss her but I am eternally grateful to have had her in my life.
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